Planning a bridal shower? Want to add some laughs and lighthearted competition? A "He Said, She Said" game is a perfect fit! This classic bridal shower game is easy to adapt, endlessly entertaining, and guarantees plenty of giggles. This guide will walk you through everything you need to know to make your "He Said, She Said" game a smashing success.
What is a "He Said, She Said" Bridal Shower Game?
The premise is simple: guests try to guess whether statements about the bride and groom are true or false based on the couple's perspectives. It's a fun way to learn more about the happy couple's relationship, highlighting their quirks, inside jokes, and shared experiences. The element of surprise and potential for contrasting answers creates a lively and engaging atmosphere.
How to Play "He Said, She Said" at a Bridal Shower
Preparation is Key:
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Gather Information: Before the shower, discreetly collect information from both the bride and groom. You can do this via a questionnaire, phone call, or even a quick coffee date. Ask a variety of questions, covering everything from their first date to their favorite memories together. Keep the questions lighthearted and fun, steering clear of anything too personal or potentially embarrassing. Aim for 15-20 questions.
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Create the Game Cards: Once you have the answers from both the bride and groom, create game cards with each question. On the card, write the question and the bride's answer. Don't include the groom's answer on the cards themselves.
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Prepare Answer Sheets: Provide guests with answer sheets where they can record their guesses (He Said or She Said) for each question. You'll need a separate answer key to determine the correct answers based on the groom's responses.
During the Shower:
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Explain the Rules: Clearly explain the rules to your guests. Emphasize that the goal is to guess which answer (the bride's or the groom's) is presented on the card.
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Read the Questions: Read each question aloud, making sure everyone can hear clearly.
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Guest Participation: Allow guests ample time to write down their guesses on their answer sheets.
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Reveal the Answers: Once all the questions have been answered, reveal the groom's answers and tally up the scores. Award a prize to the guest(s) with the most correct answers!
What Kind of Questions Should I Ask?
The best questions are those that reveal fun and quirky details about the couple's relationship. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
- First Date: "Who suggested the first date?" "Who made the first move?" "What did you eat on your first date?"
- Daily Life: "Who does the dishes more often?" "Who is the better cook?" "Who snores louder?"
- Big Moments: "Who planned the proposal?" "Who cried more at the wedding?" "Who is the better gift-giver?"
- Quirks & Preferences: "Who is more likely to forget an anniversary?" "Who is the messier one?" "Who is the better dancer?"
Remember to tailor the questions to the couple's personality and relationship. The more personalized the questions, the funnier and more engaging the game will be.
How Can I Make the Game More Fun?
- Themes: Consider a theme for your questions. For example, you could focus solely on the couple's vacations together, their pet peeves about each other, or their favorite movies.
- Visual Aids: Include photos of the bride and groom for added visual interest.
- Prizes: Offer fun and themed prizes to make the game even more exciting. Consider small gifts related to the wedding or the couple's interests.
What if I don't have time to interview the groom?
If for any reason you can't interview the groom, you can still run a fun "He Said, She Said" game. Simply use your best guess based on your knowledge of the couple or ask the bride for a prediction of what the groom might say. This version focuses more on lighthearted fun and guessing rather than a purely accurate comparison.
How many questions should I use?
Aim for around 15-20 questions to keep the game engaging but not overly long. Too many questions can drag the game on, while too few might not be enough to create a lively atmosphere.
Can I adjust the difficulty of the questions?
Absolutely! Tailor your questions to the guests' knowledge of the couple. For close friends and family, you can include more obscure or inside-joke-related questions. For more distant acquaintances, keep the questions simpler and more general.
With a little preparation and creativity, your "He Said, She Said" bridal shower game is sure to be a memorable and hilarious part of the celebration. Enjoy!
